Comments on Learn Me Good: What to do about tattling?

Unless I need to call 911, I don't need to hear ab...

2008-07-19T18:23:00.000-06:00

Unless I need to call 911, I don't need to hear about it. ;)

What they said. I haven't had to resort to this y...

2008-07-16T12:05:00.000-06:00

What they said. I haven't had to resort to this yet, but I have a plan to use a "Tattling Book" for children to report their news. Apparently this works even for preschoolers, even if they only scribble.

When I taught 2nd grade I had a class that liked t...

2008-07-13T15:01:00.000-06:00

When I taught 2nd grade I had a class that liked to tattle, so I got a clipboard, labeled it "The Tattling Board" and told kids they had to write it down. That put a stop to most of it.

When I did a lot of subbing in elementary school, ...

2008-07-11T16:59:00.000-06:00

When I did a lot of subbing in elementary school, this drove me nuts. I had a teacher tell me that she has the students write down a statement, including, name, date, location and fully describe the incident, then put it in her mailbox. It was often so much like a writing assignment, that they ended up giving up and not tattling.

As a middle school teacher this isn't much of a problem. At this age, you kind of want them to tattle with such things as "So and so brought a knife to school."

For non-violent incidents, my students must comple...

2008-07-10T19:18:00.000-06:00

For non-violent incidents, my students must complete a detailed four page form outlining every minute detail of the incident. (After all, it is important I know everything that happened.) I will probably also return the forms to them several times if information is unclear or incomplete and ask them to clarify their remarks.

After their first tattling experience, they don't generally tattle again. Let's face it, that form sucks.

My rule of thumb is: Unless someone could get hurt...

2008-07-10T16:32:00.000-06:00

My rule of thumb is: Unless someone could get hurt, I don't want to hear it. If you are tattling on someone to get them in trouble, you will get the same punishment so think hard if you want to see them punished.